OK, gentle readers, here is an idea for debate. I would really like your comments on this. For those of you new to blog land, you can leave comments on any post and we welcome anything you have to say. Just click on the "comments" link at the bottom of a post. You do not have to have a typepad account to do so and it is free. This post is a bit of a departure from previous posts, but I have something to say and want to throw it "out there". This will be a wordy one...you have been warned, but I promise that these types of posts will be rare and that we will go back to our usual pictoral posts.
Recently, I ran one of our regular house tours and yet again, people were remarking on the array of styles of our rooms and how each one seemed to be decorated in a personal manner. This remark crops up quite often and I am always mystified that people would not think the same about their own homes. To me, a house is a home. It is a personal space and every time we enter our own front door we should be glad to be "home". We should be surrounded by people and things we love. Our homes should reflect our tastes and personalities. We should feel safe and cossetted and comfortable in our interiors. After a long, hard day's work, we should view our homes as a haven and a sanctuary. With this in mind, should our homes not be decorated to our own personal tastes?
Recently in the UK, there has been a real property boom. Prices of houses have increased by huge amounts over a very short space of time. Simple economics shows that demand has been high as people have bought low priced housing for second holiday homes or to rent out as an investment. This demand has driven prices sky high and many houses are now overvalued and over priced. Several years ago, you could not switch channels on TV without stumbling across some decorating program. Love them or hate them, they were a great source of inspiration and really promoted decorating. Then it became all about buying property for some kind of investment. Almost overnight, the decorating programs disappeared to be replaced by property programs: how to buy a house, do it up and resell it at vast profit, how to sell your home, buying to let etc. Interiors were featured but it was all about beige and bland to appeal the mass market. Now, if you are going to sell your home, I completely agree: you have the best chance of a sale if you remove all clutter and personal items and paint walls beige. You essentially want to present a blank canvas for any potential buyers to be able to imagine themselves in. But something went wrong here.....
All of a sudden, it seemed that everybody was thinking about beige for their homes regardless of whether they were selling it or not. Of course, at some point down the road, you may sell your house, but until you put it on the market, why have beige? When did houses all of a sudden have to become soul-less full time. Fair enough if the interior you love best is beige, but if it isn't then decorate it to suit your own style. If you decide to sell it, then you can paint it all beige again. I would be depressed living in home that didn't have my stamp all over it, that wasn't a reflection of what I like and love, that meant I wasn't surrounded by things that were "me". Even when I go to a hotel, subconsciously I will put out a few bits and pieces that make it feel more home-like and personal: a stack of magazines by the bed, a scented candle, a vintage dress hung up on view. Why should our homes look like a hotel room? Interestingly enough, the boutique hotels which are cropping up all over the place are full of fabulous decorating, colour and patterns. Unless it is a low budget hotel chain, many hotels these days have more personality than some houses!
It seems as though all is about the change in the property market. With house prices sky high in the UK, it is not affordable to move. All indications show that things are going to slow down in the property market. As all things are cyclical, if house selling is going to slow down and more people are having to stay in their homes longer, then maybe decorating with some kind of style will come to the fore again. That is my hope, just because nothing pleases me more than when I view an interior that looks like its owner has put their own stamp on it (even if I don't like that particular style myself).
Recently, I saw an ad on TV for Ikea about just this trend. It showed a living room full of Ikea furniture and fabrics and accessories. Needless to say it is bright and colourful. The family of the house are standing there along with a real estate agent. The real estate agent is horrified at the decor and the family are repeatedly saying "But we are not selling our house!". A bit more of this and they eventually chase the agent from the house, pull up the "For Sale" sign from the front lawn, beating him about the head with it, still yelling, "But we are not selling the house!". I laughed my socks off when I saw this for the first time and couldn't agree more. Beige is fine if a) it is your favourite type of decor or b) you are in the process of selling your home. But otherwise, it should be decorated for yourself. It should be a place that gives you joy everytime you are in it. It should be a place that visitors like because it is a reflection of you and your taste. It should be a home, not just a house. What do you think? R.